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It’s that time of year again - and YES finding a relationship is top of your New Year’s resolution lists. With the craziness of this past year, who isn’t ready to bid their single life goodbye and start something new and exciting?!
Don’t dwell on the fact that you may not have a life altering kiss as the new year replaces the old. Instead, look forward and focus on the steps you can take to propel yourself towards finding the relationship you desire in 2021.
Creating A Clear Picture
Yes, everyone may have some ideas of what they are looking for in a relationship, so first things first - it’s time to create clarity in values you are looking for in a partner. Start by thinking about the kind of relationship you would like to have. How does this person make you feel? What does this person value? How do you want them to fit in your life?
It’s important to shift your focus around values and lifestyle instead of the physical characteristics of your dream partner. What qualities and the personality traits you would like to find in another person? Aligning yourself with these traits will actually give you a clear picture when you meet someone or “the one”.
Ready, Set...Take Action
Now that you have an idea of what you want, it’s time to be a match for your desires. Since a relationship is your goal, the first step is meeting anyone and everyone! Dating can be a numbers game, where even the wrong person can bring you closer to the right one. Taking action can be big or small - the point is to take achievable action daily, weekly or monthly - to create impact.
We have said it time and time again, the more you open yourself to the world around you, the more it will respond. It’s as easy as having fun, keeping an open mind and saying YES to all opportunities!
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While it’s easy to write resolutions and desires on paper each new year, the effort comes in doing. So focus on the actions that make your desires become a reality. There is nothing more exciting than making your dreams come true…. so get your dating face on and get ready to make things happen in 2021.
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